Friday, February 20, 2009

Humiliation

No one likes being treated like air

You have been insulted, your ego is bruised, your pride is hurt, you have been show powerless and diminished in some way, and now you are hurt and mad as hell! You have just been humiliated, it is unfair, and you don't like feeling foolish.

Appreciation is the opposite of humiliation.

Humiliation involves an event that demonstrates unequal power in a relationship. Often the painful experience is remembered for a long time.

But REMEMBER, at the end of the day, the only opinion of yourself that matters is your own.

I will proudly say, "This is Me".

8 comments:

JoNi said...

mel, i love this =)

chubikia said...

Inspiring words indeed. Glad to know that you can see it thru and stand up against the odds.

Nice blog by the way.

yihshin said...

oh you're back!

Baldwin said...

Though there may be times like these, but always be encouraged by even the smallest things u do that brings joy & warmth to the hearts of others. =)

Alwiz remember that you're special in all ways.

*smile*

- Alfred - said...

wow, now i juz released u have updated ur blog.... hahaha.. update it more often ba... hahaha =)

Melissa said...

Joni, thx =)

Kenneth, quite surprising when i saw ur comment

Dear (baby), miss u....

Baldwin, how u knw i hv blog?

Alfred, will my best to squeeze blogging into my hectic timetable....

chubikia said...

Didn't mean to give you a jump there. But I read and write just like you do :)

Melissa said...

Chubikia, was just kidding
welcome to sasa's blog....